Todd Lieman is an imaginative, conscious, creative man who understands what makes a day well lived and the benefits of specific gratitude expressed. He began by encouraging his young son Kolby to express each night three things for which he is grateful. And, because from the mouths of babes come some of our best insights, Todd took the challenge when Kolby asked him to “do some gratefuls”, which is what they called this practice.
Todd tweeted his gratitude and felt immediately better, and out of that grew a world of snowballing thankfulness. To listen to Todd talk about what is important in life, his Aha project and his own life lived in gratitude and honesty lets us know that a day does not have to be perfect to be well-lived. A day in which we can be present, do our best in the face of challenges, express gratitude and sometimes bring the darkness into the light without fear of negative reaction is a day well lived.
The San Francisco Chronicle recently published Sam Whiting’s story of Mica Jarmel-Schneider who decided, as his bar mitzvah project, to collect baseball gear to send to kids in Cuba. The start of this adventure was, of course, his generosity. The plot thickened with an astonishing adventure all because Mica never got a thank you note.
Noah Griffin born and raised in San Francisco, California has a national reach through his elegant musical performances and The Cole Porter Society he started
Noah Griffin wanted to join a Cole Porter Society. Simple like that, really. He is, after all, a singer drawn to the boundless elegance of Cole Porter music and lyrics. Noah and Cole share history and flair. Each is a Harvard Law School graduate, each has an easy elegance, a feel for euphony and subtle rhythms, winds an audience around their little fingers, and the list goes on. If you know Noah, you know that a Cole Porter Society is meant for him, and look for one he did.
Alas, not so simple after all. There was no Cole Porter Society. Give up? Turn away? Do something else? Not like Noah, a socially fearless fellow, to walk away from a chosen destination so he stared a Cole Porter Society. Simple like that, really. Not just “a” Cole Porter Society, but “The” Cole Porter Society, which has leapt from San Francisco, California through Cole Porter’s birthplace of Peru Indiana to New York. To listen to Noah talk about how The Cole Porter Society took off in what seems to be pretty much a flash from San Francisco to New York is a lesson in pursuing a goal and creating what you know has value just for the joy of the potential.
There is a glow that precedes every step Amanda King takes as she strolls onto a stage where she is self-possessed and in charge. There is the smile of an angel that promises something unique. And, singular it is. Never mind the frequent comparisons to some of our greats, Amanda is 100% Amanda. Her intelligence is her own spotlight. Not to her credit the genetic gift, but definitely to her credit what she does with it and how she has grown into her own style. She comes from a family of highly educated and accomplished musicians, and although she knows who she is and what she has to give, she takes her music seriously without putting herself in the center of any universe. Amanda, daughter of an opera singer, came to San Francisco to take her art into her own direction, to pursue a career as a jazz singer. She found the road bumpier than she had envisioned, and, although she and her 18-month old son were, at one point, homeless she has maintained a conscious gratitude for every blessing and is committed to giving back to the people of Raphael House who helped her when she needed it most. To hear Amanda talk about her family, her music, her son and her journey always in progress is a lesson in knowing what it means to live life beautifully. To hear Amanda sing is a pure gift.
Carson Silkey’s three daughters have had the good fortune to have a father who has no trouble speaking his mind about how wonderful they are. He is right there with them every step of their way into adulthood, overjoyed at their abilities, their compassion and their accomplishments, while at the same time stands strong with expectations of principled and compassionate behavior. To listen to Carson talk about life with his three daughters and his exceptional wife is to learn about raising girls who know their worth because their father does. Carson is a man who appreciates female strength and respects the women in his life and, is that not, when all is said and done, the basis of any real love? His love letter is one he wrote to one daughter as an assignment to write a letter to a child who had been killed in a car crash. A horrible contemplation that led to a beautiful and most perfect love letter and a reminder about how important it is to say what you feel directly to someone while you still have the chance.
Are you of the generation that remembers the flash of the Polaroid camera as a part of almost any momentous occasion? For many, those cheery photos are the only recorded memory of family events. The flash was over in, well, a flash, while the pictures oozed out a slower joy culminating in a shiny finished photograph in your hand. Seemed like the end-all of possibilities in the area of instant gratification. Seemed.
The Polaroid has been replaced by swifter methods. “Instant” is a whole new world, and we no longer have to count, shake it, or peel the sheets apart to find the gift of that image glimmering up at us. Those days may be gone but not the echo of that click and the small percolating whir that
Megan Jones’s grandmother Anne Robinson photo taken by her grandfather Stanley.
Mary Schiendler, program director of Inside Edge, is blessed with a sense of adventure that has taken her on roads to which others may have said a simple, “No thank you.” In an era when women so often got teaching credentials as the default educational mode, she chose business school for which she was entirely qualified, was one of only 14 women in a class of hundreds of men and told by the admissions officer that she was welcome to attend but they could guarantee her nothing.
Prepare to be moved, surprised, and inspired as host Janet Gallin helps guests from all walks of life express themselves in letters that support, thank, or set things straight. Always enlightening, often cathartic, these are conversations you won’t want to miss. More...